[討論] 有父母是外省人嗎?已回收
大家的父母是外省人嗎?
我是1980年代出生的,爺爺奶奶是隨國軍來台,爸爸在台灣出生。
爸爸的哥哥姐姐都留在中國,到爺爺奶奶去世前都未曾再見一面。
還記得小時候戶口名簿都有寫籍貫,我清楚記得上面寫的是『上海市』,國小很多資料上都規定要寫籍貫,我也是寫上『上海市』。
其實對爺爺奶奶印象不深,我出生沒多久後,他們就去世了。
我不會上海話,但常聽到爸爸跟他弟弟說著一口聽不懂的方言。
爸爸生在台灣住在台灣,台語比國語講得好,跟我們都講台語。
10年前,爸爸第一次獨自拜訪上海,看到了50年來從未見過的大哥、大姊,大哥大姊們也是60歲才第一次看到在台灣的弟弟。
雖然素未某面挺生疏,但是爸爸很感動能夠見到大哥大姊。
爸爸說當年爺爺奶奶匆忙離開上海,大哥大姊10幾歲,來不及帶大哥、大姊,只能暫時託付給親戚朋友,這也是爺爺奶奶跟大哥、大姊的最後一面。
當年也不像現在一樣,電話可以隨時打到中國,或是直接坐飛機過去,兩岸往來都有管制。
爺爺奶奶到去世以前就再也沒見過留在家鄉的大伯父跟大姑姑。
我從來沒聽過爸爸說爺爺奶奶有什麼遺憾,但是在那個錯綜複雜的年代,我想爺爺奶奶一定很遺憾此生未能見到親生骨肉,撫養他們長大。
爺爺奶奶也一定會擔心親戚是否有好好照顧青少年時期的伯父跟姑姑,會不會被欺負,被當拖油瓶。
而我相信大伯父跟大姑姑也是很希望成長的過程,求學,結婚,生子,父母都能在身邊。
我相信不少人的爺爺奶奶,或是外公外婆,也有跟我爺爺奶奶經歷同樣的時代,同樣的生離死別。
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