Re: [問題] 爸媽對於外宿男友家很保守~已回收
感覺只要是女生多多少少都會遇到這樣保守的父母欸…
原po的文章讓我想到自己的爸媽,忍不住來回文。
我今年28,最近準備要結婚,爸爸媽媽也是個觀念保守到不行的人,覺得女生就是不能在
外面超過12點,女生就是不能亂跑,女生就是要乖巴啦巴啦…
前陣子我爸對於我偶爾睡男友家的行徑忍無可忍,傳了大長篇的line罵我,內容不外是請
自重、他覺得很丟臉、女生要潔身自愛、你不是念法律的人嗎?不知道你法律念到哪裡去
…,看了讓人一把火就燒上來,今天住男友家是犯法了嗎?
最誇張的一次是三年前,某天跟一群朋友(有男有女),開兩臺車去貓空喝茶,我爸狂打電
話,發現在貓空之後叫我立刻給我回家,不然他要報警,現在想起來真的會白眼翻三圈…
後來真的是猛跟家裡抗爭,因為我覺得他們講的理由實在沒什麼道理可言,而且男女有別
到一個極致,女生也是有人權的好嗎!!最近就沒說要報警了,不過跟他報備要外宿的時
候,爸爸還是會傳點點點以示不滿。
朋友有跟我說要體諒他們那個年代的想法觀念就是這樣,我回他:
『可是我們生在這個時代,觀念也就是這樣,如果要我體諒他們,那誰來體諒我們呢?』
原po如果真的無法忍受,大概也只能跟家裡努力革命才能改變了吧。
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看午夜場電影,在家樓下跟朋友喝飲料聊天,唱夜唱,逛夜市,去貓空喝茶,爬山,看夜
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※ 編輯: winniewun (111.80.253.86), 04/18/2016 12:52:14
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感謝m大應該把我爸媽的心聲真切的表現出來~
如果m大有孩子的話,還是奉勸這些話不要這麼赤裸的直接對他們說出來,可以委婉的溝
通,因為我們不可能完全不做這些事,你只會得到更多的謊言
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