[討論] 結婚好難已回收
我跟另一半交往兩年半了,彼此也都快邁入30歲了,
各自也都有一份穩定的工作及收入,之前也有嘗試同居的生活,
經過了時間的磨合,也過得滿自在開心。原本兩人生活在同一
個城市,但因為我之前的工作不適應加上又得了文明病,身體健康出了警訊,
另一半陪著我走過低潮,也支持著我讓我能夠順利回到家鄉轉調工作,
但是問題就來了,一個在高雄,另一個在台南,說遠不遠的距離,
但對於我想要每天都看到另一半的個性,這確實很困難,
我不想要每天都靠著電話聽著對方現在過得怎麼樣。
28歲了,我也想要結婚有個穩定的家庭,兩個人在討論這個問題時總有一些摩擦、
甚至不愉快,如果前提要結婚,目前最折衷的方式每個禮拜一~三住在台南,
四~日我們住在一起,禮拜四、五他通車上班,我們目前存款
沒有到可以付頭期款的金額,所以會先租房子,但這樣子好像又沒有
一定要結婚或者住在一起了。為了討論件事情,原本開心的事情卻變
得像是一件悲劇,每次一想到這件事情、想到套論後的結果,
都令我傷心又難過,結婚變得很難,也變得不再讓人期待了,
另一伴也說討論這件事情他很累,我是要把他逼走嗎?
感覺好像是我太積極並且逼著他要結婚的感覺。
想問問女孩們,你們有碰過這些狀況,後來圓滿解決的方法嗎?
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