[問題] 妳願意嫁去他鄉嗎?消失
目前與男友交往約2年,大四左右一直到現在快退伍。
他是臺北人到高雄讀大學,我是土生土長高雄人。
他在高雄有頗親近的親戚、阿嬤
快交往時我就與他表明過,我是想走長遠的,完全沒有考慮想搬臺北,我希望未來他能留
在高雄,當時他說,會願意留在高雄闖,於是我們進一步交往。
入伍前ㄧ陣子他開始說,他爸媽感覺希望他回臺北,造成我們三不五時話題總圍繞再這上
面,後來他入伍之後我就沒再提起,因不想把難得的時間浪費在吵架上。
最近他要退伍了,與他討論到想把我小時養了15年的狗刺青在手臂上
他說:『這樣我們結婚穿婚紗會露出來』
我半開玩笑的問他:『啊你是有要娶我哦?』
然後就問他留下的事情
沒想到他的答案變成:『現在想,以後不知道』我整個很錯愕………
他問我,為何一直想留
我的原因是…
因為我爸媽沒有生男孩…大姐與二姐預計近幾年就要嫁到中、北部,
我媽媽有癌症,爸爸還需要上班,我很希望我能就近照顧他們…
而我男友他還有弟弟,阿嬤那邊也在南部,
他們家高雄也有房子,他爸爸也常下南部工作。
雖然會有點自私的感覺,
但是我爸媽對我男友視如己出…
我媽媽自己有種植有機蔬菜,有成果就會要我寄給他爸媽品嚐,但是他爸媽好似不是很喜
歡我,從來沒表示過謝謝之類的感覺…
男友的回答都是現在願意留以後不知道…
我不懂這樣的含義是什麼?難道是工作個幾年再回去嗎?
還有,我這樣不想嫁去外地,是稀有動物嗎?
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