是這樣的
我是女生 獨立生活很久了
一直都不太喜歡麻煩別人
相對的也不太喜歡被別人麻煩
如果是重要的事
我會把它排進我日常生活以外的事項
找時間完成它
我知道我不是熱心腸的人
但會看事情或人幫忙
因為後天清晨要搭機去國外探望男友
明天下班後我會回家收行李早點睡準備出發
剛剛跟男友line視訊聊天時
他請我再買條手機充電線跟耳機帶去
由於之前已經幫他買過很多要帶去的東西
我就有點不高興他沒有提早說
明天還要多跑一趟去買
但我明白這算小事
所以也沒對他生氣
想說明天醒來情緒消了也是照常去買
但臉是無法克制的不太開心
這時我男友就看出來了
也換他有點不高興
他說我沒空的話他在當地買吧他只是想省錢
然後說他不喜歡我這樣就不開心
怎麼辦
我理智上一直告訴自己這是小事
可是當下就是會不高興啊
以前曾經因為下班後很累
而當時整天在家的男友還要我洗碗
因此生氣過
後來他稍微知道我的地雷
就比較沒有任性的要求
我已經練習很久 努力不會因此跟他生氣了
但是要完全欣然接受男友的請託
還是得要打從心裡不在意才行吧
我是愛他的
我存了錢 安排假期飛去看他
已經期待好久了
我們也是每天每天視訊
我想不是因為不夠愛他的關係
就是心裡有一關過不去
所以請大家開導我好嗎
真心希望之後不再吵同樣的事了
謝謝大家~
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