[舉手] 決定的事情也會難以讓步嗎?
手機發文見諒....
跟同學計畫要去韓國,講好了是兩人出發,我跟同學對韓國都熟也常飛。
她的同事說想跟一直盧我的同學想要同行,同學問了我的意見,我說”我沒有很想再加人
進來耶“
,
結果同學覺得回絕難做人,我覺得到底哪裡難做人....? 只是拒絕而已??
同學去回說“要跟可以,請對方再找一個人”,對方果真就再找了一個完全沒出國過與去
我們要去的國家的人,我也不是排擠,就是覺得不喜歡擅自修改原本的計畫,而且我確實
不想帶人出發,觀光客的行程我走過了,勢必一定叫對方自己行動,這樣兩難的會是我的
同學,同學自己其實也覺得兩個人出發就好,但這一開始拒絕不就好了嗎?
後來因為要一起出發所以研究行程,因為同學的同事有出去玩不幫忙的前例,當時我也有
一起出去,這件事讓我很反感,所以我又再次委婉的拒絕他們同行,同事跟同學說”我真
的很失望你朋友不想讓我們跟“,同學覺得我衝動,但我真的不想同行,這樣會讓我出發
意願變低,我也不曉得我的堅持對不對,但感覺又像做錯一樣.....
可能我只是希望尊重吧?對於這樣有前例的人,不只一次,我原諒了但又沒原諒,還是希
望對方不要同行,擅改計畫..... 唉我也陷入兩難。
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※ 編輯: peimin792 (101.13.163.181), 04/13/2016 15:35:02
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