[請益] 還是很難調適老師的尊嚴何在?
教書約第五年,其中兩年,因為當行政,班級數比較少…就比較無感,今年回來當導師,
班級數回到以前一樣多…本人任教班級多但課程少的科目,意思是,全校幾乎一半班級會
被我教到,只是每週上課節數少…有問題的班,一週只會見一次左右,但是,我還是很難
調適…如下,想請教如何調適?
說起來,我已經比主科幸福多了,大家都有問題的班,我的課也不例外,雖然知道學生在
班導前,也是這樣的鳥樣子,態度差、睡覺…這些習以為常的問題,但是…
1.問資深老師,還是會得到:「不會啊!怎麼可能能睡?」、「他(學生)不敢!」…就
覺得好刺激,是不是自己太沒原則?沒能力管學生?(然後,那些老師因為任教性質差很
多,他們的方法是跟他耗…但是,我也是其他班導師,實在沒空…自己班也很多事要處理
)
2.我脾氣不好,也罵過學生,但是,我真的很不喜歡在任課班級罵人,總覺得才上一節課
,學生鳥樣子也不是我一朝一夕可以改變的,就不是很想管太多…搞的感情不好,也沒有
比較好上課(但還是有兇過學生,沒有比較好,一個星期就又忘了,下禮拜還是一樣…很
累…)
3.我不喜歡學生態度差、睡覺…其他,我比較可以忍受…可以接受活潑的上課方式,原則
是我的進度一定要完成而已…我自己覺得我的要求不多了…而且,我很用心上課…所以,
真的不能忍受學生態度差和睡覺…(總覺得這不是每天都會見到的班導要管的嗎?)如果
是我的班,我絕對不允許,會對抗到底,一方面覺得班導見面時間多、生活教育應該是他
們的事…任課是負責教書的(當然,我還是會管,只是覺得好浪費我的上課時間…就會覺
得很煩、很矛盾啊…)
請問各位老師,該怎麼調適呢?或是我需要改變些什麼呢?謝謝大家
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嗯,謝謝大家指教,剛教書時這些狀況沒有少過,反而更誇張的也有,老師們的方法我都
有試過(不一定很到位,但我也很努力了…),想說過了幾年或許可以適應…但是,每次
出現這樣的班級都覺得很難接受,可以煩很久,罵完學生,自己更生氣,覺得好傷身…不
會消氣,也常常被惡夢驚醒…一直覺得好奇怪,是不是有什麼陰影?很難放下的感覺…所
以我在想是不是自己的個性不適合教書?如何調適…不然,生活真的很難過,謝謝大家了
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