Re: [討論] 妹妹交男友,我該如何應對呢?
to原po
我能理解你站在擔心你妹的角度來看待這件事情,
但是,老實說我真的覺得對那男生很不公平,
雖然對你來說他只是個外人,
但是如果你想過度干涉,到時候傷害到的,一定不會只有你妹
我只想建議你,可以去關心,但是不要去插手管太多,
如果你妹真的愛上了,
你也沒辦法去阻止。
小弟目前也跟一位天蠍女孩交往,
不過我的狀況比那男的在糟糕一點(應該是說糟糕很多)
'網友'
'當兵'
'家人跑路'
'老爸生病'
'只有高中學歷(大學讀到一半就休學工作了)'
當初一見到她媽,她媽問完一連串的問題後,(真的是安安.幾歲.住哪)
她媽就強烈的表示,
叫我不要在跟她連絡了(當時連交往都還沒交往.認識才兩個禮拜)
理由是我窮,家裡又負債,也不知道我的底細(我連住址電話都給了)
我是第一個進去她們家的男生,
也是被反對的最激烈的一個
但是我們還是在一起了。
而我也正為未來在努力(退伍後準備一邊工作一邊準備考試)
小弟我講出我的狀況不是想表達什麼,
但是我想問你一句話
假如那個男生是我
你很多的自以為對我來說..公平嗎?
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