[想問] 射男不讓我走進他的世界
明天就是交往滿8個月的日子
我內心卻一直升起想分手的念頭
交往沒多久他就提出結婚的要求
但當時我當然覺得太快了這樣不妥
所以跟他說我們至少要交往一年
跟射男當朋友很輕鬆
但交往後卻發現我只認識跟我相處時的他
我們沒有共同朋友
出去約會從不牽手(他說他不喜歡)
臉書上沒有互動(雖然他的臉書只用來玩遊戲)
生日聖誕節跨年都因為他的工作無法一起過
(七夕是過得很浪漫 但之後他的浪漫因子好像就消失了)
生日希望收到他親手做的卡片他也拒絕
而當天只跟我說了聲生日快樂
我爸媽長年不在我身邊
這次過年好不容易聚在一起說想見見他
他卻以還沒心理準備為由拒絕了(但有託我送禮)
我親手做給他爸媽的禮物他也都沒空(?)來拿
因為有保存期限最後我只好轉送給別人
我不能說他對我不好
他有休假會盡量排給我
每天也都會line我
出去約會大部分都是他買單
等我很久也不會不耐煩 不太會對我生氣
但上述這些我很在意的事他卻不覺得重要
把這些現象綜合起來
得到的結論就是他似乎不願意我走進他的生活圈
到底是我要求太多還是他其實根本不是認真的?
還有哪些層面可以觀察嗎?
我很愛他
但我不希望我浪費時間在不對的人身上
拜託板友幫我解答了~
感謝~~
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