[感想] 棠棠
一直覺得棠棠跟小雯不親近也是事出有因的,
雖然小雯說這五年來一直是她在照顧棠棠,
可是不要忘了,她本職是一個醫生,
而且婚後仍然繼續工作,
她將整天的時間和精神放在工作上〈園長每次打電話她都在醫院〉
真正能和棠棠相處的時間應該只有下班之後吧?
真正跟棠棠有較多相處的,應該算是佳虹吧,
從上學到學校再到放學回家,他們幾乎是形影不離的在一起呀,
而回家之後照顧棠棠跟佳虹的則是傭人阿彩而不是小雯,
相處時間都不多了對棠棠又嚴厲,自然難以親近呀!
加上小雯本身應該是個一板一眼的人,
(從她不讓棠棠抱絨毛娃娃跟要阿彩用塑膠袋包起娃娃還有讓棠棠吃養生飯等
種種跡象推斷)
也或許是因為長期照顧小祖所養成的習慣,
她就自然而然的把她認為對的這一套移到棠棠的身上,
可是她忘了棠棠只是個小孩,還在發育,
所需要的營養成分應該跟已經是成人又有心臟病的小祖不同,
她沒收棠棠的娃娃固然是為了棠棠好,
可是她卻忽略了沒有父母親陪伴的小孩有多需要其他的朋友來填補寂寞的心靈,
也忽略了棠棠有多想從娃娃身上感覺到爸爸的愛,
娃娃是漢昇買給棠棠的,對棠棠來說爸爸不在的時候看見娃娃
至少也會覺得,雖然爸爸不在家,可是爸爸是愛我的,
她沒收了娃娃也間接剝奪了棠棠感受父愛的權利,
她對棠棠所做一切感覺是關心有餘;用心不足!
〈一直在想棠棠如果要聽床邊故事應該會變成這樣吧:
棠:媽媽、媽媽,講床邊故事給我聽好不好?
雯:棠棠,妳乖,媽媽今天很累了,叫佳虹姊姊講給妳聽好不好?
棠:可是同學都是爸爸媽媽講給他們聽的。
雯:別吵了!叫妳去就去,不然明天媽媽要跟老師說妳不乖哦!
棠:......〈默然回房〉〉
再說到棠棠對親生媽媽的思念也是無可厚非吧!
從懂事起就有個佳虹一直提到媽媽的名字,
一定也常常提起正男的種種,
例如做餅技術呀、跟執行長相愛的過往等等的,
久而久之棠棠當然會想知道自己的媽媽長什麼樣呀、做餅技術有多厲害等等,
而且小雯對棠棠又嚴厲,當然希望有個溫柔的媽媽疼愛自己。
至於棠棠對漢昇,
雖然漢昇常不在家,
可是只要一回家就很疼愛棠棠,也不會罵她,
買她愛吃的東西、喜歡的玩具給她,
表現出他對棠棠的溫柔疼愛,
而且說不定棠棠也常從佳虹那聽到,
執行長之前對正男有多深情多溫柔之類的,
應該也知道漢昇的性情,
所以不會因漢昇不常回家而跟他疏遠。
以上為個人淺見!
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