Re: [討論] 紅包文化
※ 引述《moonbbpe (..)》之銘言:
: 進了公家機關 又進了最大單位
: 剛30的我 紅包一包一包的發
: 我並沒有想結婚 生孩子
: 自己賺的也不多 現在包出去的
: 都是大哥大姐孩子的結婚
: 對一個年輕人來說真的負擔很大
: 我真的不想再跟下去了
: 真的會跟不完 又有白包紅包
: 但我只想請問大家 要怎麼好好處理這件事情
: 並非我所願 如果將來想不開結婚了
: 但將來我也絕對不會收取他們任何一包
: 請大家告訴我如何做才是最好..謝謝
唉,看你怎麼想吧。你不包,人家不會在你面前
說什麼,如果你不在意別人心裡怎麼想的話....
這就是所謂的人情世事。
我以前的同事也是這樣,他不是在地人,大家也
都猜的出來綁約期滿之後他大概會閃人。當初他
也跟你有同樣的抱怨,他也是信誓旦旦的說他要
是結婚的話絕對不會跟大家收。而且,他後來都
沒有簽名。
結果,約還沒滿他就結婚了。雖然他都沒有簽名
,但是單位還是一樣照慣例幫他做紅包簽名簿。
如果是你,你要怎麼辦?抽回來嗎?我不知道你
會怎麼辦,我只知道他就摸摸鼻子,當作什麼都
不知道....
人家一樣不會在他面前說什麼,只是,別人心裡
怎麼想?尤其是聽到他當初信誓旦旦說不包紅包
的人,你覺得他們會怎麼想?
後來在一次大家喝酒的場合,有人提起這個問題
,他才說他不知道有人會幫他做簽名簿,等到他
發現的時候已經有人簽名了。
如果沒有聽到他的解釋,你覺得我心裡會怎麼看
這個人?問題是,這種事情,如果不是很熟的人
,或者是很直的人,可能去問嗎?
所以,如果你不在意別人心裡怎麼想的話,不包
又何妨?這就是人情世事而已。
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