[問題] 畢業日期不確定, 博士生太太的困擾
我老公是博班生 今年開始第五年博班生涯
他老闆去年就跟他說夏天就可以畢業
所以我去年夏天歡天喜地買好新衣服準備帶不到一歲的兒子參加他的畢業典禮
之後畢業日期就一延再延
夫妻關係也因著我常問他什麼時候畢業而越來越糟
他假日常要去實驗室
常是我一個人照顧小孩 (我週間是上班族) 或是我一個人帶小孩出去玩
當我要計畫感恩節或聖誕節或任何連假出去玩的時候
問我老公的意見 他常給我的答案都是 我不確定能不能放假 不確定能放幾天
我心裡就很不爽
最近在網路上還有看到有人博士念七年的文章
心裡還是想我老公到底何時會畢業
我老公有拿到一個加州的offer 明年一月上班
我們時常在討論從美國東岸relocate到西岸的細節
但是他又跟我說他不確定年底能不能畢業
我一天到晚罵我老公說他在放煙霧彈 (畢業時間)
從去年夏天放到現在
我的人生充滿不確定性 有鄉民的太太跟我有一樣的經歷嗎?
老公畢業日期不定,小家庭如何做規劃?(我要不要搬家,'辭職……等等)
想請問鄉民有什麼看法?
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