[正經] 我女朋友他爸媽
我跟我女朋友在一起快3年了
也見過他爸媽不少次 她也看過我爸媽了
前幾天因為某些事情她爸媽知道了我和她發生過關係
昨天晚上找我去她們家談
因為她爸媽是屬於比較保守觀念的
覺得既然這樣了就應該要負責
而我也跟她們說我會負責 但是她們竟然直接跟我說要我先跟我女朋友訂婚
我女朋友是我第二任 我是她第三任 在一起三年了也很愛對方
但是畢竟我們才21歲 我們自己的人生規劃也是大概24.25才要結婚
而且我現在也剛開始在工作 經濟還不穩定
她爸媽突然這樣說真的嚇到我 還說給我3個月的時間叫我回去去跟我爸媽說
叫我爸媽來提親
所以想來請教板上的各位應該怎麼說服她爸媽不要那麼早
還有訂婚跟結婚可以隔很久嗎 另外訂婚是也要辦婚宴的那種嗎?
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她爸媽說想替她女兒要個名份 但是訂婚也不一定會結婚不是嗎?
她爸媽只是怕我跑掉 所以我和我女朋友也在想辦法說服
我也不是不想先訂婚 但是我怕她爸媽所謂的訂婚是要婚宴的
我想靠自己的能力去辦 而不是花家裡的錢
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