[請益] 長輩很喜歡說 當兵才能變成男人
小弟目前是準備當兵
不過家庭因素可以申請12天的補充兵
可是家人都很希望我去當一年兵
連其他長輩也是
家人雖然尊重我不當一年兵是因為有自己的規劃
(規劃邊工作邊充實自己&拚看看公務員)
但常常對我洗腦:
你看某某某當完兵比較像男人了
當過一年才懂得人生歷練
你沒當那麼久這樣怎麼跟別人聊話題
當兵可以拓展人脈
....
(很多後面省略 幾乎2~3天講一次)
我是原住民 住在一個比較純樸的小村莊
跟我同輩or比我小的
很多都是高中畢業就簽志願役or當完兵就就業和結婚的
死黨裡面2個簽志願役1個已經服完兵役在工作
只有我把大學讀完 (至少還有讀到國立科大)
村里的長輩好像都很嚮往當兵和簽志願役
還在讀書的時候就常常被問
1.當兵了沒
2.甚麼時候當兵
3.不用讀那麼高拉 當兵很多錢捏
4.簽志願役阿 你看某某某已經開始賺錢了
5.當兵很好啊 可以練身體 操你的體能
6.當過兵女人才會覺得你man
諸如此類的
給我有種
『你沒當過兵很丟臉』的感覺
雖然心裡很不服氣 不是自己害怕當兵
也不是害怕吃苦 (村落很重長輩禮貌所以沒直接嗆)
只是對自己的未來很焦慮
自己做了履歷才發現沒甚麼東西可以丟出來給雇主看
很想替自己的未來多打拼
覺得多一年的時間可以利用
想要拚看看
但是最近又突然很猶豫...
是否要當一年兵...
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