[閒聊] 多年後,巧遇過去令人討厭的同學.會怎做?
小學時,班上有個外省同學,老爸自營事業,也是國民黨某黨部幹部,
老媽是家長會高幹,他常仗著自己家世背景好,家人溺愛,
以及他老媽在學校的勢力,在班上跟其他幾個壞同學到處找其他同學麻煩,
並霸凌一些比較弱勢的同學,但老師,校方不敢得罪他媽下,皆拿他沒輒
我也被他們那幫找麻煩過,但我選擇的是直接對幹,為此還被老師黑了,
只要打架都是我倒楣,問題在那樣的情況下,不想被欺負的話能不打嗎?
好在的是,小學畢業後升上國中,那幾個人都沒跟我同校
直到2002年某一天,我在東區逛街,不巧又遇到那個討人厭的同學,
我跟他當年都24歲吧,不過他長那麼大囂張的態度一點都沒有變,
他把我叫住,然後問我近況,我本來不想理他,後來想想基於禮貌就理他一下,
我說:'我踏出社會沒多久,一個月領不到30000'
他回說:'想不到十多年過去了,我不知該說你是可憐還是可悲,
你要為了一個月不到30000的錢看別人臉色,還要擔心飯碗砸掉,現失業率可高了,
那像我,從小我要什麼家裡就給什麼,我要台瑪莎拉帝跑車,家人也給我,
甚至於老子都準備把公司交給我了' 我心中聽了很不爽,但也不想破壞我逛街的心情,
於是回說:'現在我是這樣沒錯,錢賺得不多,但每一塊錢都是靠我自己的力量,
至少我是這麼認為啦,我賺得是有尊嚴的錢,未來會怎樣很難說啦'
他看我臉色變了,就說:'老同學,不打擾你逛街了,我也該忙了,身高170的漂亮馬子
在等我帶她出去' 我就頭也不回繼續逛我的,只是那天原本逛街的好心情被破壞了不少
十多年過去了,公司他也應該接了,只是他那副調調那天家裡事業被他搞垮
我大概也不會意外,想問的是版上有人有類似我這經驗嗎?
離開校園多年後遇過當年惹人厭的同學嗎? 如果是這樣,通常如何處理?
乾脆不理他,還是會理他一下呢?
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