[請益] 如何避免男生愛比較 比誰過得好的心態
如何避免男生愛必較 愛比誰過得好的心態??
最近又犯了這種很無意義的煩惱 弄得自己睡不好
起因是看到FB的大學同學開服飾店 感覺過的不錯
偏偏我不是很喜歡這個人 (以前室友)
因此我就翻他FB看看他結婚沒 買房沒 買車沒 估算他的現況跟自己比較
我認為自己過得應該還好 已婚
計算過夫妻兩人的淨資產(股票 基金 現金 房產(實價登錄) 保守估至少有1400w
我就會無腦的想說就算夫妻分算我也有700w 應該比他強吧 (我們都70年次)
我也會想說我要在兩年後買台200萬的雙B 萬一有同學會 可以開去證明我的過不錯!!!
我是認為這樣心態很糟 但.....確是真實存在的
覺得這想法很無腦 一直內心戲 請問版上男生都怎麼避免這種愛比較的想法?
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