[疑問] 秤女這樣是打鬧還是真的不在乎?
在版上滿久一段時間了,爬文也爬滿多的
常常會在版上聽到一句名言:天秤對重要的人才會任性
可是天秤的表現好像又不見得是 任性=重要
所以讓身旁的人常常猜想不透,到底在對方心目中是否重要
大概是因為我認識的天秤女年紀比較輕吧!說話比較沒經思考
有些看似打鬧的言語,但總會讓我有點不開心
最近發生的事件如下:
事件一
我跟天秤女討論到中樂透的話題,我就問她如果中了四億要怎麼花?
她說要拿回去給媽媽,自己拿二千萬應該可以安穩過日子了
我笑笑說兩千萬買房子都不夠,她說不然拿五千萬好了,她要買別墅
我說有了別墅還可以買大象(因為她喜歡大象),反正只是一個聊天話題,亂哈拉
後來我說那你中樂透之後可以幫我買一匹馬嗎?我很喜歡馬
她立刻回我:不要,幹嘛買馬,我不喜歡馬
這回答害我小難過了一下,雖然她後來說馬太普通了,她不想買大家都可以買到的
她的回答讓我難過啥呢?就是有一種自己喜歡的東西沒有被好朋友尊重的fu吧
事件二
我們一起去買早餐,她問我要買什麼?我說我要買豆漿半糖,你幫我點一下
她怎樣都不肯,一直說你自己點
我就說拜託你幫我點嘛!
她就說:不要,你自己點
我當然只好自己點,但心裡不高興所以臉比較臭
她有發現,就主動跑來跟我說話(以往是我要一直跟她講話,她都不見得會理我)
事件三
我去她家,不過我跟她都沒吃早餐和午餐
她下午一點上班,我下午兩點上課,所以我想吃完午餐再去上課
我就說:sogo離你家遠嗎?我想去吃午餐
她:還好,你有跟別人約嗎?那快點去準備
我:沒有阿!跟你去吃
她:我不想吃,我想買麥當勞去公司再吃,吃飯很浪費時間
你學校那邊沒得吃嗎?
我:喔!可是你不是常常吃麥當勞,而且我想吃港式飲茶
她:你幹嘛那麼愛吃港式飲茶阿?這樣要吃很久,浪費時間
我:也還好吧!你這樣每天急急忙忙,吃飯睡覺上廁所不是都浪費時間?
她回我上廁所沒有浪費時間,不然先吃餅乾好了,丟了一包餅乾過來
然後就不說話,我也不知道她的意思到底是怎樣,所以我就拿包包要準備要走了
她:(大驚)你要去哪裡?
我:我要去吃飯阿!你不跟我去吃,那我就自己去吃拉!
我放大絕招之後,她終於跟我去sogo吃東西了,只是不是飲茶
我內心os:吃個飯是有這麼難嗎?
雖然有些事件中假如我不高興,她都好像會安撫我
可是我會想說,是不是因為我還有利用的價值(可以陪她)
還是她對我真的就是很信任,所以對我的那些舉動是故意打鬧?
因為我看她對她其他朋友好像不至於會這樣...
我也不喜歡常常生氣的感覺,我覺得好朋友相處就是要愉快
她都要等到我有點小不高興才要來安撫我,這樣我的感受不好
不知道大家覺得呢?
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