Re: [閒聊] 反覆
※ 引述《jaren (回憶的擁抱)》之銘言:
: 上次明明才開心的PO文說溝通的重要性,但是事實上,溝通完說好的,不能已讀不回,一
: 星期見一次面等的要求,當週馬上食言,然後似乎沒這回事似的了!
: 明明交往才2個月,卻情緒起伏到我自己都覺得煩了,而他則覺得還好,你本來就是這樣
: 不是嗎?
: 其實我很清楚,我們真的不適合,他也清楚他的忙碌並不適合交女友,可是每每想脫口而
: 出分手的話語,總又在最後吞了下去!
: 昨天因為和家人吵架跑了出去,想找他給安慰,其實心裡早抱著見不到的準備了,但是寧
: 願他忙到沒有看,也不是一句怎了?我還在忙,就消失了!打了電話掛斷,後來在打關機
: !
: 我一個人哭著出去,後來還是默默哭著回來,到家後才又問我還在嗎?怎麼了?接著又消
: 失了,於是最後我是哭著睡著的!
: 醒來看到的只是一句抱歉,沒有回電或任何安慰字語,再度讓我失望!
: 討厭自己沒有放下的勇氣,討厭這麼沒用的自己,最後還是自己軟著性子要他哄我,於是
: 得到了,寶貝,對不起咩,跟親親和抱抱的圖!
: 雖然他說著愛我,但是其實心裡很清楚,那是喜歡不是愛,所以才可以這麼的可有可無,
: 才可以所有事情都在我前面?可以一直食言不在乎我的心情!
: 是不是放下才是唯一解?
不好意思自己回文,謝謝大家給我的推文,我自己也很清楚我的個性比較黏,除了本身喜
歡黏人外,前任是幾乎都是黏一起不管是在一起或熱線,在之前即使分隔2地,每天至少1
通電話10~15分鐘聊天,一星期見一次面,所以現在的模式是之前從未有的!
其實我很清楚我們兩個個性差異很大,也知道當一段感情不開心多於開心時,大概也不久
了,不過當初既然明白不適合還想試試看,那我還是會抱著磨合的想法做最後努力,如果
真的還是不行,那我會放手祝福對方!
只是想請教大貓們,那我究竟該怎麼做?之前有人說,自己乖乖安靜,大貓忙完了自然會
黏過來,只是這個忙完的定義是3天1星期還是一個月?這之中完全不連絡嗎?
我們獅老闆說忙碌這件事一直以來就是他交往的問題,他也想過是不是不交女友比較好!
他星期一到六都要上班,每天忙到淩晨,然後隔天睡到中午上班,忙的時候會早上就起來
上班,回我賴的頻率大概3~5句(嗯哼,呵呵,哈),唯一放假星期日要忙家裏,回賴頻率5
~7句,平常不會講電話,見面大概是2星期一次,我要求的!
我試過每天就把想說的話留給他,他有空就回,所以一天下來滿滿我的留言,他只有3句
,但是心裡期待感落差會很大,也試過每天丟幾句,他有回才回,然後就變成2人沒什麼
連絡了!
所以我真的不知道怎麼做才是最好的了,而他給我的不安全感&總是食言,讓我的心情反
覆起伏,回我就很開心,剛好我情緒低落時就會胡思亂想,幸虧他都很包容我,不在意我
的這些反覆!
但是我覺得這樣也不是辦法,基本上他的模式應該不可能改了,也不是短期3, 5天就會忙
完的,而我自己是不是當作沒有男友或者一般朋友模式,有聊就聊,沒聊就算了?見面了
才當情侶?
謝謝!
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