[問題] 面對曾經得罪或冒犯你的人?
如果各位遇到這種朋友會怎麼做呢
案例;
一個認識不久 半熟的朋友 會聊天打哈哈,但不至於分享內心私事
對方幾次幼稚的玩笑開太大+加到我地雷 (有意無意都有過)
幾次勸說但還是嘻皮笑臉講不聽 很讓人反感
最後一次覺得無法忍受他的幼稚行徑 也沒必要維持友誼關係 決定漸行漸遠
不在跟他有任何接觸 (傳訊+MSN我都不理 不然就很冷淡回應)
一個月後 對方似乎感受到事態嚴重 期間也很誠心的多次用簡訊道歉 開話題
我的問題是
從決定冷淡對他之後 我就沒生氣
但也不是很想再維持友誼 總覺得又會像之前一直被猛踩地雷
就是有種 "阿"根本已經懶的理你的感覺"
但是面對對方試圖示好 (他姿態擺很低)
又覺得跟他僵住計較 好像險得我很小氣
各位會怎麼做呢 ?
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