Re: [心得] 對於翰陞車禍後心得...不喜勿看

看板Hanson-Wu作者hansoniris (Longman)時間18年前 (2006/06/26 14:35)推噓31(31推 0噓 18→)

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※ 引述《Iamlavender (Impossible is Nothing)》之銘言： : ※ 引述《justenvoy (我只是愛流浪...)》之銘言： : : 我也是很喜歡翰陞阿他好的地方也是說不完我覺得不好的也一兩個罷了... : : 每個人總是有不同感覺囉... : 老實說你講的感覺我可以了解 : 就像是補習班主任每到收錢時就在那邊喊說補習費在不漲價她們都要餓死了 : 現在都是賠錢開班或是咬緊牙關度小月 : 但就從授課老師單方面所傳出的資訊多是誰家B字頭車開膩了準備換啦 : 不然就是怎樣又花了萬把元之類的 : 中間這兩者矛盾的落差直可說是鬼打牆般的接都接不上 : 除了幾位家有恆產的"清寒教育工作者"外 : 相信多數的老師都是從一般家庭出身 : 也更相信他們也知道這個社會是一個什麼都漲唯獨父母薪水不漲的滋味 : 每位老師賣的都是自己的智慧財產 : 當然你高興怎麼花真的是他們家關起門來的事 : 只是於學生面前適不適合提到這種與一般家庭高落差的消費行為 : 則還是請各位清寒的教育工作者稍為衡量一下 : 說者無意聽者有心叫補習班摸著良心少吸學生一點錢連我自己都覺得這是瘋話 : 所以只能請對方多將心比心的想一下 : 對於多少家庭來說 "補習"已經變成一種奢侈的消費 : 誰都枝道你有錢你高興怎麼花就怎麼花 : 但也不必再別人為了1千元苦惱時妳再旁邊拿一張白金卡喊著該怎麼花錢很傷腦筋 : 我覺得沒有誰絕對都是對的誰一定就是錯的 : 就是要一種將心比心的感覺而已~ I think it's one-sided opinion for u to express ur feelings..... Maybe you have forgotten what I had told all of you how poor I was cuz my parents had a 20 million dollar debt in 1985. And it took me 18 years to earn every penny to make my living and pay for the debt..... Since you say that this is a society full of expensive goods and everyone's parents can't get a promotion in their position and salary, then how come there are so many magnificent villa and mansion built in every big city in Taiwan. I always tell my students to study hard to make their lives more reliable and stable. Most of the time, I tell you guys the truth cuz I don't want to lie to you. However, all of my friends and colleagues always persuade me not to say so much. I have so many students and I also work 60 hours a week standing all day teaching, speaking and editing handouts (49 weeks a year )( for the past 10 years ). Should I be poor, or always tell u I am poor?! What you said is not fair. YOU can't tell a doctor, lawyer,CEO,accountant to live like all citizens and forbid them to show their sense of achievement cuz you think that's not considerate for the poor family. ON the contrar, I should tell those kids to work hard to make their parents live better life because of their achievement. This is the first time for me to express my feelings and I deeply hope it can be helpful...by the way, I seldom tell u guys about my wife's jewelry or my cars; however, i always tell my students to come to me if they are in need..... Thanks anyway, though I am deeply sad about your opinion of me.....I think I am not as good and considerate as I thought of myself.................... -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 59.113.130.209

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