[問卦] 長大後會變成自己眼中的亞洲父母嗎?
我知道父母賺錢養小孩很辛苦,
父母也理所當然的覺得孩子應該用功讀書回報自己,
能夠養活自己可能父母就滿足了!
說到小時候被父母打或者是體罰,
有時候父母很不講理也絕對不會道歉,
反過來的情況就一定要你道歉,才有禮貌;
教小孩努力用功讀書考上好大學,
自己卻沒有以身作則,總是要求小孩比自己還多,
整天看電視滑手機,卻叫孩子不准玩手機,
甚至從來都沒有帶小孩去圖書館過;
判斷孩子的價值是學校成績,
總是拿別人的小孩去做比較;
完全不在意孩子的社交、心裡狀況,
不引導他去發展自己的興趣,
不告訴他應該培養自己的專長,
因為“學校會教”,
如果他做不到父母的要求絕對是孩子不努力,
不可能是自己的基因爛!
請問在這樣的家庭長大的孩子,
而且父母也沒有留遺產和房子,
但也沒留債務給你,
那孩子長大會是怎樣的父母呢?
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我文內提到的“小孩”已經成年了…
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※ 編輯: AntiEntropy (106.64.161.36 臺灣), 04/21/2024 23:30:33
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