[問卦] 大學想跟人建立長遠的關係該怎麼做消失
我已經學會跟同堂課的身邊同學聊天
聊宿舍在哪聊課業聊高中聊小時候
但常常聊完感覺就是"瞭解了 就這樣"
甚至聊到一半感覺無趣就停了
不會想在繼續下去當長遠的朋友
但也有遇到一兩個對我很有興趣的人
主動問我名字加我賴
但也是聊幾天就沒話題
想約出來又怕尷尬無聊
這種情況下好難認識可以當一輩子朋友的人喔
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真的嘛
不然大家都是看到人就想跟他互動
覺得對方不錯就在一起嘛
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這個從國中開始就體會到了
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太早
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這點我有想過
我想擴充見識所以去打工跟社團
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沒錯
得瞭解自己的長短處
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我醜男
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好難得
我遇過幾個老師的配偶都是大學認識的
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想交心
不曉得從何努力
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原來如此
可以先要個聯絡方式慢慢聊或者遇到其他事情在聯絡
※ 編輯: qazStarStar (140.118.136.84), 09/23/2017 17:22:36
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※ 編輯: qazStarStar (140.118.136.84), 09/23/2017 17:23:52
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雖然有點認同
但想跟人深交好像往往要問很多鳥事講很多幹話
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上大學後突然發現我沒有興趣...
以前都在唸書打lol
現在電腦打不動就真的沒事做了
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瞭解
我會多參加
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我去社團找看看
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我承認
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是有點辛苦
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太痛苦了吧
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對 高中以前革命情感滿重的
大學宿舍我不曉得有沒有機會產生革命情感
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怎麼說
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可是我現在電腦沒辦法打lol
室友好像也不太找我
我找他們吃飯也聊不起來
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有打算多去活動
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有點怕到時候還是沒朋友
那時候想刻意也來不及
※ 編輯: qazStarStar (140.118.136.84), 09/24/2017 14:11:24
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