[問卦] 結婚聘金是不是在賣女兒消失
小弟最近要結婚,但是為了聘金的事情,被搞得不要不要的
老婆娘家那邊,對聘金非常要求,大聘、小聘缺一不可,數額又驚人
小弟光是要搞婚禮的籌備事宜,就已經焦頭爛額、蠟燭兩頭燒了
又得想盡辦法找個錢來付聘金
每次看到娘家喊聘金的口吻,真的跟去菜市場買豬肉喊價有八七成像
只是小弟是躺在砧板上的豬肉就是了........
小弟的另外一個朋友也粉慘,也是被聘金弄得不要不要的
而且是連朋友的老婆也很堅持一定要聘金
這朋友的老婆是個女性主義者,平常都高喊女權至上,要女性自主、自決
但遇到自己的聘金額度,也是跳下去跟我朋友吵個沒完
說什麼聘金數額不夠的話,他老婆會對不起爸媽的養育之恩的什麼鳥的
結果夫妻倆談到過年時,朋友要他老婆除夕、初一都得在夫家住,但未必要煮飯幫忙時
他老婆又拿女性主義出來說:
為什麼要遵循這種陳舊的習俗,為什麼她不能決定過年要住在哪裡?
為什麼她過年不能回家孝順父母.....等等
我朋友白目的說:
好歹聘金都付這麼多了,一年去待個兩天還好吧?不然也可以過年老婆不去夫家,
但我朋友就不付聘金......等等
他老婆一聽就大爆炸,開始狂罵我朋友不夠愛她,只在乎錢,這麼一點錢也不願出
還放大絕說不付聘金就休想結婚之類的.....
因為我朋友考量到自己年紀不小,又只能回收,最好只好默默認了......乖乖付錢
有沒有聘金這種陋俗的八卦?明明就是在賣女兒,還要包裝的一副很高尚的樣子
而且把女兒賣了之後,女兒如果過年死都不肯去夫家還猛往娘家跑
老公算不算是被女兒及岳父岳母聯手詐欺取財了啊?這算不算仙人跳阿?
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