[問卦] 為何很多女生到一個年紀會很想當母親?消失
各位鄉民早安
最近母親節快到了
小弟發現很多女生到了一個年紀(25-35)就會很渴望有自己的小孩
有的時候這種欲望的強烈程度和青春期男生的性慾有得比
甚至很多女生為了有小孩所以草草結婚
即使找個撲攏共的老公也在所不惜
而且不乏精明幹練的粉領族有這種想法
小弟覺得很奇怪,生養小孩,
這件事對女生的人生而言應該是淨損失才對啊
把小孩養大很花時間、精神及金錢不說
現在這個環境下,即使小孩長大了也不一定有意願/能力奉養父母
為了有小孩隨便找個男人結婚更是賭上人生的行為
特別是若又不幸離婚,傳統婚姻/交往市場又對單親媽媽很不友善
請問各位,這些女孩兒為何會如此不理智呢?
抱著養老防兒的心態好好經營自己的事業,
讓自己衣食無虞,老了退休也不用擔心經濟問題
如果真有情感/生理需求,再交男友或當頂客族
這樣不是更好的選擇嗎?
這些女生到底在想什麼?
有沒有鄉民,特別是女性鄉民,能為我解答呢?
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如果有錢,就算沒辦法po小孩照,可以改po旅行或下午茶照啊,還是能向朋友炫耀
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成就感低不說,人母與家庭主婦還會被社會期待限制社交圈,
小弟看自己一堆堂/表姐婚後生活得出的結論
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