[問題] 這樣的朋友,結婚時還要邀請嗎?消失
有位朋友在結婚時,我們感情還不錯,我獨自前往,包了3600禮金
雖然一直以來互動都不平等,因為她很亮眼,很愛現、愛說教,
常把我當垃圾筒,聊天也都是聊她的事,我常被蓋台
婚後以老公為天,每次邀約都是我主動問,她還是以要陪老公為由約不出來
某次和她聊line,感覺得到她心情不美麗,莫名一言不和就把我封鎖了,
Facebook也把我刪除。
我明白她不缺我這個朋友,但這種小不爽的程度,這樣做會不會太過了?
請問各位大大有這種經驗嗎?
這樣的朋友,我結婚時該詢問她嗎?
如果要,該用什麼方式詢問呢?
ps.這事件讓我不禁思考,她這樣做也許是個不錯躲紅包的方式?(誤)
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之前參加婚禮的朋友很多都消失了,有的忙家庭小孩,有的就是感情淡了,
大家會遇到這種情況嗎?
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我以為去參加過的朋友都可以邀請,以為這是心照不宣的人際互助潛規則,
原來觀念錯誤了~那以後被邀去的婚禮要謹慎考慮了..
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我們共同朋友還是很多的,不然直接打手機,應該不會不接吧?
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他們夫妻倆是主播和空姐的組合,收入應該很不錯
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人的感情本來就是複雜的,曾經付出,的確會氣她,妳把感情想得太簡單了..
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嗯嗯,所以我上面有承認我對婚禮有點誤解,父母那輩好像比較需要還人情~
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請問大人,公堂之上假設一下有罪嗎?
何況本文用ps表達就是玩笑話。
我是客觀的在問大家意見,也得到回應了,不會邀了。
被你說是在討紅包有點委屈,友情被糟蹋的心受傷了。
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