[心情] 同學被迫和親戚長輩併桌消失
因為只是訂婚桌數不多
我只請幾位摯友
和之前包過紅包的同學
人數是尷尬的10幾初頭,
1桌擠不下...
因此有幾位同學要到別桌去併桌。
之前聽一位朋友說:和親戚併桌怪怪的
所以本來是計畫要和爸爸的同事併。
但卻因為親戚桌的人數也有不少空位,
最後被爸媽要求我同學要併到親戚桌去。
然後...因為外公不坐主桌
外公坐的客桌(我媽娘家親戚) 又有好幾個空位。
我媽就強迫我我同學和外公坐一桌
(同桌的還有外公的老朋友)
我覺得同學不應該跟兩個年紀差這麼多的長輩同坐
我媽又取名桌卡為"外公桌"
我就強烈反對
我爸自己也不願意他的親戚和同事坐到那桌
他們兩個就要我配合。
我已經跟我爸說...
不然就併到我爸親戚那裡,和堂哥姐等..我的平輩坐會比較洽當
但我爸不理我
週日就要訂婚,這幾天想到這個心情就不好
實在對同學不好意思,
畢竟我最要好的朋友也攜伴不可能拆散他們去幫忙
大人都為了面子和省桌錢、自己的親戚要坐滿
,就強迫我們年輕人要配合,
硬要湊滿他們的人
從來沒想過...他們會不會不自在?
我會對他們有多不好意思?
我都不敢...親自去問同學"你們會不會介意?"
唉~ 不知道有沒有人也有這樣感覺和經驗?
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