[心情] 真的有人婚禮做全套都不吵架的嗎?消失
我們婚禮省略很多習俗
12禮,黃金都不收
只收餅錢和小聘
大聘不收,省略迎娶訂婚喝茶入房之類的儀式
幾乎全部習俗都省了
只有拜別父母,拜祖先、拍婚紗,吃大餅,
小聘和度蜜月
這樣簡化再簡化
宴客也只少少6-8桌請親戚而已
婚禮不收紅包,新郎壓桌錢也不收
婚紗故意挑農歷七月拍
女方宴客故意挑不是好日子
老公男方那邊則是完全沒有任何儀式宴客
原以為這樣應該很簡化
不會有什麼爭執吧
結果這麼簡化的婚禮還能跟家人吵架...
我覺的省錢吃大餅就好比較便宜
但我爸說可是我們在高級大飯店宴客
不吃ㄧ盒8-900的餅能配的上高級飯店嗎?
然後我聽到這句就火了!
我說我想能省則省,我不想讓婆家覺的我那麼虛榮
ㄧ盒餅要吃到8-900我不想人家覺的我傲嬌
可是後來上版上看大家幾乎都說餅錢十幾萬很正常
我看完突然覺的對父親很內疚
嫁個女兒吃個餅別人都十幾萬在吃
我卻只想讓我老公出ㄧ萬上下的餅錢
突然覺的對爸爸很內疚
可是他的朋友都5-60我相信他們愛吃大餅啊
西洋餅反而會被老人嫌棄吧
後來是賓客座位表,這也能吵
後來連當天喜餅怎麼發場面才不會亂這也能拿來煩惱
因為聽說喜餅兌換卷視同廢紙沒人會拿來
然後是雙方家長見面,我男友爸爸內向不善言辭
又要搭車ㄧ個半小時,所以沒出席
只派未來婆婆跟男友大哥出席
這樣我媽也要說這樣不正式(暈)沒見到男友爸
我超煩,我已經把儀式簡化成這樣怎麼還那麼煩啊
我很納悶那種訂婚,結婚,歸寧,迎娶喝茶十二禮
大聘小聘全收,整套玩下來不會過程爭執很多嗎?
會不會已經和家人大戰過幾百回了!?
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