[問題] 提親吃飯
婚事都還沒開始
光一個提親後在外面吃飯就搞得很頭大
由於爸媽說 男方不能吃女方夠夠
所以這頓午飯要由男方付款
我是覺得這沒關係
所以就私下跟男友說一人一半
當作請長輩吃飯 但由男方出面結帳
結果剛剛不小心說溜嘴
爸媽開始碎唸
我說
我們從頭到尾都沒有要照古禮的意思
不要拿這些習俗來套在我們身上
而且就當作我們請兩家長輩開心吃飯
以後這些錢也都是我們的錢
沒必要分得這麼清楚吧
然後爸媽就說
隨便啦 你們年輕人開心就好
還沒開始籌備婚事
是否顯得女兒太叛逆太偏向男方
但是...為什麼要執著於男方付錢
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真的,有了這次經驗就要更謹慎,不能再這麼有話直說,因為菜色由爸爸處理,爸爸說擔
心訂太貴,男方會說話,我才說我有幫忙出一點,好吃就好,沒關係,才衍生後面的事情
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※ 編輯: shyuan1025 (27.247.197.99), 02/23/2017 20:55:48
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