[問題+心情] 為了發喜餅不知道該怎麼辦
看了板上很多學姐發餅的各種心路歷程,禮俗真的大家都不同。
但沒想到真的輪到我會這麼複雜
我是9/3訂婚的新娘,訂婚原本是一件開心的事情,但是訂婚完我就開始不停接到抱怨電話,而原因就是我的訂婚宴為何沒有人手一盒餅?
我老公家庭經濟並不算寬裕,他剛出社會兩年,做的是神職人員(收入低),結婚可以說全部是我老公出錢
我父親則是高級主管,而且我爸媽都交友廣闊,但因我爸媽十分體諒我老公,所以當初說好了只吃一百盒喜餅(不含漢餅),所以我們都是在結婚前私下送(我爸曾說,以他的交情光是他一個人就要吃掉四百盒)
熱鬧的喜宴過去了,開始接到各路抱怨電話
最主要是因為我跟我爸的公司朋友和教會朋友是發公帖,大家登記時沒有說要來
我還使用親手登記跟電子問卷兩種
但是還是很多人突然出現在喜宴上
(教會儀式結束大家開心來參加)
結果當天是喜宴大爆桌,甚至後來有些我輔導過的學生為了體諒我,包完禮就先走了
當然臨時出現的就不可能給餅,而也有出現交情沒那麼好的,沒有算到要給喜餅,但現在私底下都在議論紛紛,尤其我爸整個黑掉,讓我心情真的很差,為了幾百塊的餅錢朋友都不要做了?
為了給喜餅的事弄得我一場喜事變得烏煙瘴氣,但我現在也不知道怎麼補救才好,想說是否就我自己掏錢補訂喜餅?但是這樣對男方會不會不好意思?如果訂婚後補喜餅會不會很奇怪?
手機排版,不好意思,謝謝大家耐心看完
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因為我是學生~>_<~
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好的,謝謝你的解惑
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※ 編輯: icecradle (49.214.130.148), 09/06/2016 09:21:36
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目前沒提到,但補送的機率很大
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筆記ing♡這招很厲害
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之前是不懂啦!現在我了解了,感恩
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有的,已經統計了,謝謝你的提醒唷
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