Re: [心情] 提親後媽媽說結婚先暫緩吧
原文恕刪,不好意思..
手機排版請多包含
看完內容雖然覺得很為你遺憾,
但我覺得你跟男友兩人在提親這件事情
你們自己當雙方的橋樑溝通明顯不足...
1.吃不吃甜湯這樣的小事,
我在提親前一天還有提親當天早上
跟家人提醒很多次
"人家禮俗是說來提親不能吃女方東西"
先幫家人做過心理準備了
感覺就不會像是男方在擺派頭...
2.必提的聘金跟雙方的禮俗事宜
你們兩個在提親前有沒有沙盤推演過?
兩邊的態度你們兩個人都要清楚才不會傷和氣
因為說穿了提親就是在講錢
談錢最容易傷感情
3.白目的媒人真的是豬隊友
媒人是來喬事情的 不是來生事情的
講話這麼沒禮貌是哪招?
從你的文裡只看的出來
你知道你爸媽的想法
但男友完全不知道他們家想怎麼搞啊!
而且他居然還只覺得是因為兩邊不熟才這樣
沒神經到一種境界
你絕對要擔心這點!
因為很有可能妳嫁過去在相處上有磨合時
他只會覺得你還不習慣他家的模式
同意你媽說的
兩個再走一陣子再來談接下來的事情吧
你不要因為想結婚而嫁
先修補兩邊(至少你爸媽這邊)心裡疙瘩
才是現在你要做的第一件事
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