[問題] 文定奉茶,結婚奉茶??
男方家是台南人, 我家(女方)是北部人
預計明年早上訂結儀式一起, 中午男女方合請婚宴
想請問一下
聽說南部習俗是文定時女方奉茶,但是男方家(通常六人)“不"給紅包
迎娶後女方再奉茶,男方親戚(人數不定)才給紅包, 女方要準備喝茶禮
怕南北認知不同,自己媽媽覺得不舒服,
想上來請問一下大家, 如果迎娶後有喝茶,男方給紅包,文定時男方不給紅包是常見的習俗嗎??
個人認為,文定奉茶和結婚奉茶是不同的場合和意義,結婚奉茶給紅包回贈喝茶禮,
跟文定給不給紅包似乎沒有什麼因果關係,好像沒聽說文定奉茶男方不給紅包的,
自己心裡覺得怪怪的,更怕自己父母覺得不被尊重,請問大家的經驗
謝謝大家解惑
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