[心情] 一年前提親真的太早了嗎?
以下是篇抱怨文
不喜歡的請趕快左轉
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從被求婚後就一直關注版上文章
大概也是這樣
加上我是台北的小資新娘
實在越看擔心太晚搶不到喜歡的新秘場地等等
於是距離理想時間約一年半前就開始準備
先從婚紗 新秘 婚攝 場地
一路就這樣開始準備
直到最近
搜尋的工作差不多完成了
能訂的也先訂了(例如婚紗)
看起來是該決定日子訂場地及新秘婚攝了
於是,最近開始跟雙方家長提起提親這件事
沒想到這是個惡夢的開始!
首先,女方(單親)我這邊先跟媽媽提
想說也是順便問問聘金之類
好讓男方有個底
沒想到,媽媽堅持應由男方媒人婆來問
這才是「正常」的程序。
經過幾番討(爭)論(吵)後
我決定先討論出提親時間點
以便雙方準備接下來的事情。
因此我請未婚夫去問男方長輩
原以為男方應該會好處理的多
結果經過幾次詢問
媒人婆(未婚夫的阿姨)說
沒人那麼早提親的啦
要不然就先拿八字來算啊
真的沒有合適場地就先登記再辦也可以吧!
天啊
一年前提親真的很早嗎?
我只是想要日子趕快出來好訂新秘啊
我想要當天搶到我最愛的那位新秘啊(哭)
況且,女方媽媽這邊又真的很傳統,
幾年前就千萬叮嚀不能先給人家八字...
更別說先登記這種事,
女方媽媽大概會跟先私奔畫上等號吧。
所以我也遲遲不敢跟媽媽開口
一直在想有沒有什麼好的話術可以用......
唉!
大家有遇過這種事嗎?
該不會我只能真的再等等了......
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