Re: [心情] 新郎家人..
※ 引述《lovesk03078 (薰兒)》之銘言:
: (代po)
: 好不容易交往六年準備結婚
: 婚禮是兩家一起半,沒有誰主場不主場
: 只是有幾件事讓我有點疙瘩.==但不知道是不是自己太小心眼
: 1.新郎爸爸不讓我爸上台致詞
: 新郎爸一心認為婚禮是男方的場,但其實兩方桌數各半,因此我爸爸媽媽的長官朋友親戚
: 也會到
: 但新郎爸只願意讓我爸媽站旁邊聽他致詞,我爸媽都不可以說話
: 2.新郎姐姐想包辦婚禮音樂
: 由於新郎姐姐是音樂系畢業,她男朋友也是,因此她希望由她包辦表演音樂(曲目她自己
: 訂)
: 但我弟弟也是音樂班出身,也想表演,但新郎姐姐却用各種理由推託(沒默契,弟弟年紀
: 小_弟弟已經高中了)
: 3.新郎姐姐要換三套禮服要換三次妝髮
: 她還有未來婆婆認為,因為姐姐很重要(?!)所以要換三套禮服(晚禮服那種)還要有一個新
: 秘負責換她的妝髮...
: 但我才是主角吧.....
: 其實這幾年來我們都相處不錯,但因為這些讓心裡有點不愉快,不知道是否是我太小氣??
(我是這篇原po)
謝謝各位前輩們的意見
真的非常感恩
婚禮是我們兩個人自己出
而姐姐那些也是姐姐還有婆家出
男朋友他不是軟弱
他也有所行動
而今天我也開口跟未來公婆說
"兩家分開辦吧!"
因為我爸媽養我二十幾年
我完全無法接受他們這樣對待
我也跟他們表明
請外面樂團來(當然他們有mur mur)
但
這是我的婚禮
我自己出錢
不拿聘
我要給自己 給我父母最風光體面的婚禮
所以真的非常謝謝各位
讓我從自己的悲劇女主角立場醒過來
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