[問題] 有關提親的兩三事~
幫朋友代po~
先祝福板上即將結婚的各位圓圓滿滿
我朋友(女)跟他男友差六歲(女大男小),中間交往過程因為年紀問題也有些怯步
但是總是克服了很多事情,女生也有見過男生爸媽,而男生也到過女生家裡
只是雙方父母都還沒見過面,也算是很巧的是我朋友在月初懷孕了~
只是也因為這樣加速了雙方父母見面,而這次見面也算是男方家人去提親
只是這兩天因為男生家人希望今年底先訂婚,等明年過年再結婚
但我朋友覺得到時他肚子已經四、五個月大了她也不想辦婚禮了
而她男友家人又很堅持說因為今年算過命男友農曆29歲結婚對家庭、事業和健康都有問題
也因為這樣我朋友還說很想把孩子拿掉~而站在朋友的立場仍是希望她能再想想
她也在抱怨她的男友太過優柔果斷無法決定,當然這件事我朋友還沒跟她爸媽說起
眼看這禮拜男方家人就要來提親了,而我朋友她男友也很急著跟我哭訴說他很珍惜
很疼惜這段感情,也是希望這件事能夠圓圓滿滿的辦好
不知道有人能提供一些想法幫幫我身旁這對朋友嗎?
謝謝感激不盡^^
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回一樓~小孩的事本不在他們的預料之中,真的就是一個機緣
但也是這樣的機緣讓男方家人態度更積極
他們本來也想說登記公證就好了,但因為剛好有了小朋友男方就希望還是照當初說的要辦
婚禮,不希望造成日後更大的嫌隙,也因為這樣我也是站在勸和不勸離的立場
希望朋友不要想不開做傻事,因為他們也很希望有自己的小孩的!!!
※ 編輯: laura0920 (42.79.208.191), 09/28/2014 22:29:19
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回smilelove~男方家人意思是今年訂婚然後辦登記都OK~然後年底度完蜜月
男方家人只是覺得男生今年農曆29歲不宜辦結婚典禮(對家庭、事業健康有影響)
希望能延到明年再辦~只是我朋友覺得這樣就根本不用辦了
※ 編輯: laura0920 (42.79.208.191), 09/28/2014 22:32:10
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回caca~男方家人是有這打算,但我朋友很堅持,然後我朋友他男友就變得很為難
因為男生有答應過女生今年要辦結婚典禮,只是男生沒考慮到傳統習俗問題
現在覺得很兩難也很懊惱....
※ 編輯: laura0920 (42.79.208.191), 09/28/2014 22:34:47
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