[問題]老問題~ 婚後與公婆同住已回收
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跟男友交往大約8-9年,
有討論到明年結婚的事,
聊到婚後要住哪,
男友說他是獨子(還有個妹妹未婚)當然要住家裡。
我跟他表明我是住自己家都一直想往外搬的人,
加上很怕被拘束所以我不想跟公婆住,
但我可以接受住很近就是不能同個屋簷,
不然光生活習慣我大概就會跟他爸媽有不開心了。
(當然去過他家幾次 雖然不是甚麼大問題但就是生活習慣不同)
他說婚後要住家裡邊存頭期款在結婚,
我跟他說那等存完頭期款在結婚,
他覺得哪有結婚後就不住家裡的再說他是獨子。
要給他點緩衝期讓他跟爸媽說跟接受,
說隔壁鄰居三代同堂也過得很好之類的,
也說他工作時他爸曾說要在公司附近買房子給他讓他上班方便,
是他拒絕才沒買的,所以他爸對於他搬出去一定可以接受,
但又說我之前在台中工作時(我住台北他住台中)
他爸曾跟他吵架,說他一個月沒回家幾天乾脆住我這算了,
他跟他爸說我是因為他才去台中工作,當然要陪我,
久了他爸也接受了,
他不想讓他爸媽覺得結婚就不要爸媽。
但我覺得這根本是兩回事阿!
還叫我去問其他人有沒有人一結婚就不住家裡的,
跟他說有他還說那他們一定不是獨子或是家裡不夠大的 冏
板上的有獨子婚後又住外面的嗎?
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