[問題] 他的真心話
大家好
我是雙眷…又有問題想請教大家了。
我們是遠距離,交往9個月!
ㄧ開始交往時,他有表示他工作忙,希望我能主動找他聊天~主動報備行程。
我有時候沒安全感時會鬧脾氣…不主動找他時,他就會主動關心我…
我以為遠距離…既然見不到面通不到電話,就傳訊息分享生活大小事!
最近我發覺我家雙男對我的態度…
越來越冷淡…
不會再主動報備行蹤
不會分享生活中喜怒哀樂
不會再打電話給我
我打給他也不接不回
傳訊息不再秒回,甚至常已讀不回!除非有重要事情才會回覆…
原訂2月底去找他,也說他那週忙,請我延至3月…
昨天真的忍不住,問他到底我做錯什麼?ㄧ直問他,他終於才說…
他平時工作已經又煩又忙,
我卻一直傳訊給他…
工作中手機ㄧ直響不停,真的讓他更煩躁!覺得我爲什麼都沒站在他立場想想
他說他知道我只是想分享,但問我可不可以換其他方式?可以我又能分享,他手機又不會ㄧ直響令他煩!
聽完他的真心話…
我真的嚇一大跳!恍然大悟…
原來把他的心拉遠的人是自己!
我用自己的方式愛他…把他追求時說的話,希望我天天分享喜怒哀樂當聖旨…
突然發現自己好可怕,以為是愛他,事實上是加重他的壓力!
我不敢再主動找他了…因為好害怕又加重他的壓力…讓他的心離我更遠
所以,昨天講完後,我就完全安靜了!因為我覺得自己好可惡又不貼心!完全是個失敗女友……
剛才他主動傳訊息來…
「其實你可以找我…不是叫你不找我,不用那麼大差距!」
唉…
我真的不懂他在想什麼…
我到底該怎麼辦?
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