[問題] 我該上崗嗎?
我已經有看置底了 y
大家好,
不知道大家第一眼看到我的標題有甚麼想法
我是一個正在念研究所的女生
和男朋友交往了兩年多
今年暑假,他要準備去當兵了
和眾多姊妹們一樣,在知道這個消息以後,也是很認真的來板上做功課
但是...當我看到"很多當兵時期的口角和問題,都是顯示出平常就有的問題"
這樣的文字的時候,還是不免擔心了起來
因為我的男朋友是一個對我沒有甚麼安全感的人
偶爾看不到我會心裡緊張,然後就會打來跟我說說話消解那樣的感覺
想當然,在當兵的時候不能夠常常見面,甚至電話聯絡
於是我開始擔心我們的這個問題,並且在昨天和他談了
談的過程不是很順利,因為他似乎不知如何解決這個問題
他也表明,他最擔心的問題就是他會亂想,以及我和其他男生單獨出去
我有一個很好的男性朋友,他也知道滿久了
我覺得要我一年不跟他單獨出去很難...
報備得到同意,在當兵期間又不知道會不會因為部隊狀況遲遲等不到同意
而且我也覺得報備讓我壓力很大...(不報備又讓他壓力更大)
所以,我在想,以我的情況,應該要上崗嗎?
我很擔心我上崗之後,反而在他在最辛苦的當兵期間和我口角,沒辦法好好做事
如果鬧到更大,甚至要...在軍中的他該怎麼辦?他一定會很難過...但是沒有朋友可以陪他
而我至少還有其他朋友照顧我,這樣顯得好不公平
心裡其實有點動搖,要不要在他當兵的時候先分開...如果回來還有緣份以及感情再在一起
板上姊妹們有曾經有這樣困擾的人嗎?希望能看到您的建議..因為我真的有點擔心害怕
或者要怎樣才能夠解決在去軍隊前就有的問題的相處方式呢?
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