[問題] 夾心餅乾真的很難做...
看板FamilyCircle作者Dryduckboy (我的名字叫做Do)時間12年前 (2012/03/24 20:11)推噓4(9推 5噓 52→)留言66則, 23人參與討論串1/3 (看更多)
遠距離的戀愛,不僅僅談的很累,甚至有想要放棄的衝動
那遠距離的結婚,又該如何去面對來溝通,我實在是頭痛至極
先說說原波的家庭狀況:
家住遙遠的花蓮,經濟狀況小康多一點
爸爸,家管,是個面臨70歲的妻管嚴父親
媽媽,公務員,60歲老頑固老思想的母親
原波,軍人,人在基隆上班又身兼夾心餅乾的可憐兒
狀況:
三月初,女朋友(23y)傳了個簡訊說聲他有了,當下聽到了人就空洞了一下
隨後溝通了一陣子認為小孩是個生命,不可能將Q比(小孩的暱稱)拿掉
於是跟對方的父母親坦白之後就交代婚事應該要盡快進行
但是女方因為只有三個女兒沒有半個兒子,所以希望我們結婚後不要住在花蓮
(女方住在彰化)
看看可不可以住在北部一帶,至少以後女方或是男方家庭需要照顧時
不用從花蓮繞半個台灣到彰化,況且自己也在北部工作,少少回花蓮
應該在北部置產定居下來才對,況且女朋友讀法律系,以後也要往國家考試方向前進
但是家中的母親認為結婚後媳婦應該要在家裡侍奉雙親,不需要讀書,不需要工作
只需要在家好好的帶小孩,照顧母親
就這樣...女方家長要我在北部定居,我父母卻要把女友娶回花蓮當乖乖媳婦
(女友是現代女性死都不要在花蓮)
我該怎麼辦...板上的智者有辦法或想法幫忙嗎..
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