[閒聊] 四年了 茫然該不該放棄
如題,小妹我自大學畢業至現在已經準備考試四年了,猶豫自己到底該不該放棄國考。
說是四年,其實真正開始國考的時間是三年左右。
小妹畢業於台中的私立大學社會類學系。
畢業之後準備了一年的研究所考試,當時沒有考上後,
父母就問我要不要試著考國考,當時也沒有想太多,就開始了國考的生活。
孰不知是痛苦的開始。
第一年我有去補習,補習的效果還不錯,當時的分數都只差兩三分就能上。
第二年因為考慮家中經濟緣故就選擇不繼續補習,在家自學,成績就一落千丈,
大約差了五到八分。
到了今年考試就更慘了。
再加上長期全職待在家中準備考試,身心上都出了點問題。
(之前診斷有輕度憂鬱症,但是因為沒有收入、也不願意讓家人知道因此不能定時就醫)
因為我一直考不上,親戚們對我父母的責難越來越多。
父母從一開始的支持也逐漸轉為希望我快點考上或是趕快去就業了。
我前陣子找了一份兼職的工作,目前是一邊兼職一邊備考。
但是也不知道自己該是要繼續兼職+考試,還是早點放棄直接就業。
看著身邊的同學、朋友一個個讀完研究所、結婚、生子。
然後看著自己的人生還卡在這裡,真的非常茫然。
如果是版上的大家會選擇放棄考試還是繼續兼職努力呢?
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