[請益] 父親身病體力差,猶豫是否要回台
看板CareerPlan作者jeffsofat (hellojeff)時間8年前 (2015/08/16 01:42)推噓31(31推 0噓 91→)留言122則, 39人參與討論串1/2 (看更多)
爸爸洗腎很多年了,今年過年後體力跟身體狀況都明顯下滑。
家中有其他姐妹母親也滿健康,因爸爸現在狀況不好,一致希望我辭職回台陪伴。
我在大陸工作幾年主要做渠道開發,年薪約180萬台幣,大約從兩個月前開始找台灣工作
,待遇都非常差,開價3萬多的還真不少,最好的5萬8。說的不外乎是我的業務資源都在
大陸,回台灣沒太多用處之類......該怎麼說呢,台灣的就業環境真的很差,也是我自己不
夠優秀吧。
另ㄧ方面,最近在大陸有個非常知名大公司挖角,要1.5倍找我過去讓我8月底回覆他,而
現有公司也打入老闆的核心圈子願意栽培我,工作雖然很辛苦但是每天都感到充實,且能
夠讓我對自己的未來有信心跟安全感。
我35歲未婚,之前因跟銀行借錢玩投機股票賠了不少,去年初才還清所有貸款,所以我手
頭存款不多,想到回台要一切重來,而現在環境又這麼差,讓我每天都睡不好!曾想過自
己創業,但我認為自己應該還要多磨練幾年才有勝算,所以打消了念頭。
我非常愛我的爸爸,從小他就最疼我,他也是一個非常愛逞強的頑固老頭,總是叫我不要
管他要我為自己未來發展著想,但我知道他心裡希望我回去......親姐妹也是辛苦的生活著
,都沒有賺/存多少錢,甚至還有小負債的,我也擔心之後萬一要開大刀或長期的醫療看
護等,這些錢誰能扛?
其實我已經決定最遲過年前就要回家,爸爸只有一個,還是那麼愛我的爸爸,但是心裡真
的很掙扎,唉,不知道怎麼說!回去後可能也不敢結婚了吧!
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