[猶豫] 人生的顛峰,該不該作轉職的決定呢
大家好,先澄清本篇非炫文,只是心裡很掙扎,想聽聽大家的意見。
小弟今年36歲,目前有房有車,年薪約150萬,還有貸款600萬房貸,固定支出每月盈餘約2到3萬,育三名小孩。目前還在進修博士。
但是,因為工作的關係,必須到外地工作,每周約回家一次。感嘆無法常陪家人。
最近感到兒子漸漸長大,因為我太太也工作關係,小孩常需在安親班「加班」到9點。加上最近小女兒剛滿一歲,很黏我,每次要回到工作崗位,都很捨不得家人。
其實,很想好好教小四及小一的兒子唸書,很想陪老婆分擔家務,很想陪可愛女兒長大。
但是,公司預計3年後拿到博士後讓我升官,到時工作壓力更大,或可能離家更遠,若放棄這個工作回去,回到家鄉工作薪水可能折半,每月房貸負擔比率提高,每月盈餘變少。
或許在迷惑的同時表達不力,還請包含,如果是各位會作怎樣的決定?
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