[撒餌] 感情該全力付出嗎?
想撒餌的星座:巨蟹
放餌,眾蟹子出來吧!!
想問巨蟹們,你們對待另一半會是100%的付出嗎?
寧願犧牲自己的自由、生活...,也會以另一半為優先,
會這樣嗎?
(以下問題都是以雙方為男女朋友的前提)
如果會,當對方無法回應你的100%,可能與你期待的回應只有50%甚至更少,
你還會願意繼續做下去嗎? 你的得失心都是怎麼處理的呢?
如果不會,除了曾經被傷害外,有沒有其他為什麼不會的想法?
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我本身也是蟹子,每段感情都近乎100%的付出,
很累,可是我卻很願意這麼做,
可是每當得到的回應低於我的預期很多的時候,
我就出不來了,無法跳開"用事情來衡量愛的價值、多寡"這個觀念,
不知道聰明的過來人螃蟹有什麼想法?
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And we're all just passengers tonight.
And we're all just travelling through our lives.
It's just a little turbulence.
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儘管你很愛對方,也不會付出100%的自己,這樣解讀對嗎?
※ 編輯: bluezero000 (114.41.129.231), 06/19/2016 00:04:17
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這樣會不會落得總是再算計的愛...,感覺會很累?
到底什麼時候該計較,什麼時候甘願付出,真得很難平衡Orz
※ 編輯: bluezero000 (114.41.129.231), 06/19/2016 00:10:04
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其實我也不小了XDD
拼命燃燒自己-->依照對方付出才決定
這過程中間的轉折也是因為受過傷嗎?
還是突然醒悟之類的?
我比較想知道在這中間過程的想法,
我再思考轉成自己的想法,感謝不吝分享。
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受傷這點我是知道,只是我好像學不乖XD
不要太黏這點真的很難做到,感覺有違背自己意志的那種抵抗感...
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真的一路走來每次再衡量價值,都會覺得自己是商人,
一方面算計,一方面厭惡自己算計,那樣的愛感覺變質了...
愛己再愛人,我會再好好想想取得平衡。
剛剛還看到黛娜之前寫的文章也有提到這個,
謝謝黛娜提點,很久之前也受過妳的幫忙阿!!
感激不盡
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了解了,不過離真正做到,看來還有一段很遠的距離...
thx
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看到大家都這麼團結的,過來人經驗,真的覺得巨蟹真是一個體貼人的星座阿XD
我們都不孤單, keep going !
※ 編輯: bluezero000 (114.41.129.231), 06/19/2016 14:36:58
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