Re: 比較, 最痛的傷!
※ 引述《Florency (unsure!!?)》之銘言：
: this morning, i asked my mom to do something, but she refused me...i was wondering: why other people's mom can always do that for them, but my mom just said "sorry, i'm busy..."
: i complained it to mom...then i got her tears... suddenly, i just knew that i was totally wrong!! i can't compare one to others on the different standard...
: i feel so sorry...
: if you guys have any experience of comparing other...remember, stop it!
: cuz' it really hurts ....
: sorry, for my poor typing in chinese...^^ forgive me ba!!
親愛的...你別在打英文啦....我退化到看得很慢ㄝ...ㄏㄏ.....
咦...我怎麼覺得你以前好像也和我分享過這個ㄋㄟ???
不過,我覺得媽咪畢竟只有一個,她愛你也永遠是不變的定理,這是不能用來互相比較的..
她也許是一時忙嘴快拒絕你的求助,就算不是,反過來想,
若她什麼都為你做,你有成長的機會嗎??
其實父母真的難為,他們必須放手讓小孩學會靠自己,但又怕他受傷,
這種矛盾不是我們現在能體會的,你就不要想太多了ㄛ...
而且,很多時候,我們的不滿可能只是一時的情緒,
多想想和娘親親蜜的時刻,不滿就會自動消失喔,千萬不要沒想就爆發,那很傷人的..
像你這樣對你媽說話,要我是她,早砍人了,ㄏㄏ....
不過知道自己做法不太對就好啦,找機會跟娘說個抱歉吧...乖.....^^
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