[請益] 女朋友說有炮友的感覺
性別: 男
問題類型: 情侶相處
自己個性: 人來瘋 不強勢 溫和 散散的
對方個性: 溫和 有時有點天真 很容易把事情悶在心裡 也是有點散仙
1.問題背景:
我們交往九個月,一周平均見三次以上,周末約會出去走走大約一個月三次吧
兩個月前她也曾小彆扭說好像話題變少了,我當時是回說交往久了又很常見自然會這樣
後來隔兩天帶她去郊外完就很開心了
昨天愛愛完,有一陣子我們互相看著看著便問她在想甚麼
本來她說沒事,出飯店後追問下她說剛剛突然有一種炮友的感覺,可能想太多
我本來沉默一下,看她眼眶有點要泛紅
後來是抱著她說話,大意就是小傻瓜 我很愛你之類的,
後來也抱了+親十幾分吧
但依然感受到她的不開心..
2.目前狀況:
昨晚今早回訊息冷淡的只說了晚安早安,但她平常本來聊line就不熱也常如此
還得繼續觀察吧
3.我的疑問:
是甚麼會讓他有這種感覺?因為交往要過了熱戀期對我感覺淡了嗎?
還是純粹昨天約會只有愛愛讓他這樣想?
之後該怎麼應對呢?
又如果回到她說這句話的當下,我該怎麼應對?
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