Re: [討論] 信佛教者可以去參加教會嗎
我一開始也有想組佛化家庭 但我後來看到佛化家庭也有許多煩惱
一、夫妻為了財米油鹽醬醋茶 種種家事吵架的
二、丈夫喜歡燒香 小孩會過敏的
三、夫妻太過沉迷佛教 不理家事
四、父母參加法會 小孩對佛教沒興趣 甚至改信基督教 家人觀念不合常吵架
五、家裡煮素 小孩想吃葷
六、父母持戒 小孩偷看成人片 想交異性朋友 發展婚前性行為 同居
七、兒子結婚 父母要求全部擺素食桌 引起媳婦反彈
八、女兒男友從事販肉 佛教母親極力拆散 惡言攻訐
所以我後來選擇當羅漢腳 當我有了情慾 就看看不淨觀的照片
當然我不是鼓勵大家都不成家 我覺得成家要考慮清楚
不然導致日後離婚的結果 三思而後行
現在人結婚抱持很多浪漫綺麗的幻想 和以前農村社會 注重貞節
任勞任怨 寡欲知足 細水長流相去甚遠
不過我覺的佛化家庭比一般家庭自律嚴格 也看夫妻雙方的智慧
正信而不迷信 也避免自讚毀他
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