[心得] 依止善知識
昨天終於鼓起勇氣去求見善知識,希望能依止,很可惜被拒絕了。
晚上回來後很沮喪、懊惱,想說不如就此退轉,破個幾個戒律,
想想殺、盜、淫、妄、酒有哪些個可以破的,結果卻沒一個想破,
當下也無破戒助緣,所以破戒的慾望生不起來。
經過一個晚上的沉澱,早上去爬山時靜下心來反省,為什麼會被拒絕?
我想主要的原因,就是我慢心。去依止善知識,如果沒有將自己歸零,善知識
又怎麼會接受一個不接受教化的弟子呢?
我想學佛的路難免跌跌撞撞,以自身的挫折分享給大家,當求善知識碰到挫折時,
有幾個原則還是要把握住
第一、無論如何,向佛之心不可變。因為挫折而退轉,以後要再有心學佛的因緣
不知道何年何月才可再生起。沮喪、傷心、難過沒有關係,但不要一直懷憂
喪志,負面的情緒總是會有過去的時候,不要以為自己的路被斷了,就不想走了。
第二、不要生怨恨心。以我自己為例,被善知識拒絕,我昨晚很難諒解,所以心中
很憤慨,生氣。但怨恨善知識,將來自己要承擔什麼樣的果報,實在是很難
想像的。所以不要怨,要感謝,感謝他讓你有反省的機會。
第三、就是前面所講的,去依止善知識,心態要正確,將從前所自學的東西放下,
將自己歸零,否則被拒絕的機率是很高的。
所以,我現在又回到原點,暫時只能在家裡面念佛。分享自己的經驗,希望有心想要
依止善知識的大德們,能以我為借鏡,不要犯了跟我一樣的錯誤。
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