[閒聊] 仰慕異性法師....
面臨一個困擾想請諸位大德分享釋疑......
最近發現自己有些過於仰慕某位異性法師
不是邪淫那方面的思慕
但個人覺得有超過信徒對法師正常的景仰 >"<
一開始只是把法師當法師這樣尊重.....
當然一開始就覺得這位師父威儀氣質舉止很好
有種飄逸自在的風度,說法也契機,所以很喜歡親近。
熟了之後,法師也特別關照我,
會額外指點或回答問題。
結果最近發現自己會意識到對方是異性....
因為近距離互動的關係....靠近交談時心裡會起一種害羞的感覺
也會期待見到法師所以去道場。
這似乎有點不太正常了!!
我們親近法師應該是為了要學法的吧!
我不希望參雜其他奇怪的動機,
不知道我該怎麼轉變想法呢?
但這其實這對修行有短期幫助.....
因為為了見到法師更常去道場,也比較精進了
打個比方,我覺得目前情況有點像國中生喜歡上老師
所以會努力在該科目好好表現 @@"
我該怎麼作做呢?
還是這種程度的仰慕並無大礙?
不知是否有人可分享經驗......
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