[討論] 女友說畢業後想到俄羅斯進修五年消失
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文長
事情是這樣的
女友今年大三,學藝術的
目前有開班收小正太小蘿莉教畫畫
最近跟我討論畢業後想考俄羅斯烈賓進修,為期五年
我們關係很穩定,他的交友也很單純,我們對彼此都很信任
只是在討論這個問題時,我心中很矛盾
畢竟五年時間很長,沒有人能保證這段時間會發生什麼事情
另一方面,我又不希望她因為我去耽誤到自己的前途
他有說過,如果我不希望她去留學,那她就會留在台灣讀碩班
只是讀出來充其量當個教師
但是她的夢想是與我開畫室,她負責開班,我負責營運、未來展店
有外國文憑會加分很多
這些我認同
但是我年近三十,看過的事情也不少了
距離、時間,是會讓一段感情發生難以預料的變卦
如果說她真的想考的話,我也不會強留
鄉民朋友有沒有類似的經驗?
不知道該怎麼調適
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是啊,你說的有想過,但是分不是這麼容易說分就分,因為個性、興趣上都很契合,相處起來也很舒服...
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要繳房貸、家人要顧,還有簽證的問題,因為我不是學生了,現實面就是這樣
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她不會俄文rrrr,又怕冷
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※ 編輯: EnderLu (180.217.150.161), 12/22/2018 03:02:22
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※ 編輯: EnderLu (180.217.150.161), 12/22/2018 03:03:40
※ 編輯: EnderLu (180.217.150.161), 12/22/2018 03:04:17
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0.0 是這樣的哦!謝謝你的資訊,我在跟她聊聊看,但詩集怕最後成為未來爭吵的因素之一,像是一樓提到得這樣
※ 編輯: EnderLu (180.217.150.161), 12/22/2018 03:05:33
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