[討論] 現代人是不是做愛簡單交往難?消失
(先聲明這是個議題討論, 什麼仇男仇女就不要來了)
現代社會, 是否做愛簡單交往難?
觀察到, 特別是女生大於男生, 很多女生交往經驗宣稱可能不多, 但經驗豐富, 這些人並
非玩咖 (至少自己不那麼認為) 外表上也不是, 偏氣質乖巧, 可能學生就功課好, 上班族
就是不錯的白領, 清淡氣質, 屬於多數男生會喜歡的類型
那為什麼會這樣呢?
最常聽到的事情緣由, 就是歷經各種挫折, 然後研究身心靈, 會冥想運動, 會看心理學,
去夜店跳舞玩樂, 後續就自然發生, 而以上這些會認為是一種活動與娛樂, 調劑身心用的.
如果對方白目, 就已讀不回外加封鎖, 這樣而已
但是要規規矩矩的認識呢? 不好意思, 各種門檻條件, 放大鏡觀察, 中途試探測試, 觀察
比別人交往期還久, 更別論身體接觸, 你講的話, 你的眼神, 心思, 隨時都在評估觀察
如果中途有個不對勁就做紀錄, 將來作為分開的理由之一, 還會做到內外封鎖成為黑歷史,
保持乾淨紀錄. 可是私下卻能跟前面那些不熟的人講心事, 通常這種gay朋友也很多
但不要以為那些規規矩矩認識交往的對象, 都是些沒人要的. 恰恰相反, 她們對此非常挑,
學經優是基本, 個性也要好, 幾乎各方面是完美放大鏡, 檢視這些規規矩矩認識的對象
但那些連朋友都不是, 可是可以講心事做運動的呢? 只要順眼可以聊就好, 其他什麼基本
上也不在意, 講了也忘記. 可是規規矩矩的對象, 連講個話做個動作, 都非常嚴謹
所以就這樣產生了一批又一批的小清新, 交往經驗對外宣稱只有兩三個 (通常還包含初戀
好幾年的那個), 外表氣質也是多數男生愛的, 所以完全不會覺得自己有什麼問題, 而且會
認為自己是發自內心在追求真愛, 手段只有女生或gay能稍識破其心思而已
當然人類社會的交配權, 自古以來都是以雌性為主, 雄性只能追求. 但現代社會, 這樣
做愛簡單交往難的現象, 是否越來越多了, 大家覺得呢?
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