[討論] 受過越多情傷是不是就會越難愛上一個人消失
打給賀~
本魯我啊,進入青春期的10幾年來追求過三個對象,可惜最後都失敗收場
然而,我已經走出最近一次的失敗3年多了,發現自己已經沒辦法深愛一個人
有初步好感的異性還是有,但自己會猶豫要不要跨出第一步,深怕自己再次受到傷害
即便對方給自己的好感越來越高,自己跨出第一步了,也做了些付出
但當自己覺得沒得到該有的回饋時,就會想打退堂鼓,用比較難聽的話講,叫"放生"
但是當每次想到朋友的感情史,他們完全沒有這個現象,他們即便也需要過個幾年,
才會遇到想追求的對象,但也不會像我這樣子的猶豫、躊躇不前
所以想請問大家,我這樣的心態是正確的嗎?錯誤的話該如何調適呢?
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